Be careful never to marry against your parents wishes except on conditions when they are telling you not to marry that boy or girl because he/she is poor and of another tribe.
But as long as they tell you not to marry him or her based on family background, religious background; someone from a different religion or a non-believer, and other factors that they may sense dangerous for your future, please obey them.
Parents have been blessed by God with perception. They have intuition (immediate recognition or perception of things).
Have you ever wondered how a woman is able to know a problem with a baby who can not even talk. The baby does not show or point to her where the problem is, but She can be able to tell that the baby has the problem with the stomach or with the hand, or with the head. And when she perceives, she will be exact not guess work. She does this without any machine to scan the problem. What is that sense that she uses for scanning the problem? That is what they call intuition, a supernatural perception of things. They ability to know things supernaturally.
You find that she does not need to be a prophet to perceive that. She just intuits it.
Therefore, that woman who could perceive sickness and the exact problem in you even at the time you could not point at the problem your self that was affecting you when you were a baby, can percieve that your relationship will be problematic and that it won’t work out.
There is an old saying that goes this way, “An old person can see when he is seated what a young person can not see when standing.”
This simply has to do with the perceptive ability in old people. There is a tendency of young people thinking that they are wiser than their parents, and make decisions based on assumptions, but old people make decisions based on experiences in life which they have encountered.
If your parents and your whole family is not okay with that relationship that are entering or have already entered, please drop it out with immediate effect now!!! Because if you insist, they will not release their blessing to that marriage of yours. And I want to assure you, your relationship won’t work. You will cry in that relationship as never before. You will curse why you were born.
As I speak right now there are some people who are even in this group who made such decisions to marry against their parents wishes, and their witness to what I am talking about is tears, misery, pain, regrets frustration and the such. If I would ask them to testify, they would warn young people with tears.
_John Wilson Okurut_